The land of the rising sun is heading for sunset: the Japanese prefer virtual sex to real relationships, and the population is declining as the porn industry booms.
Japan is a land of
contradictions. Visitors taking a stroll along the streets of some
Japanese cities may find themselves blushing at various sexually
provocative themes depicted on many television commercial billboards.
Besides, this East Asian country is notoriously known for having one of
the world’s most prolific sex and pornographic industries, making it
seem like Japanese people are obsessed with sex and by extension,
procreation. Alas - such a conclusion is far removed from the actual
situation on the ground.
Based on a poll of never-married people by the country’s National Institute of Population and Social Security Research, and cited
by the Lexington Herald Leader, 27.6 percent of single men and 22.6
percent of single women expressed no interest in entering into a
relationship with a member of the opposite sex.
Furthermore, a 2020 press release
by the University of Tokyo indicated that “in 2015, 1 in 4 women and 1
in 3 men in their 30s were single, and half of the singles say they are
not interested in heterosexual relationships.” The same University of
Tokyo press release also mentioned the rise
in virginity and the drop in interests towards dating and sex as
indicators of the “herbivore-ization” of younger generations. (In
context, Japanese popular culture labels unmarried
adults who appear nonchalant about finding romantic partners as
“herbivores”, dubbing adults who have romantic partners or who are in
pursuit of them as “carnivores.” )
To make matters more complicated, Japan is suffering from a rapidly falling population, with 2023 marking the 13th consecutive year of population decrease for the country. According to the Independent, “Japan's National Institute of Population and Social Security Research predicts that the country's current population of 127 million will decline by nearly 40 million by 2065.” The same Independent article added: “The shrinking of the country’s population – deaths have outpaced births for several years – has been called a ‘demographic time bomb’ and is already affecting the job and housing markets, consumer spending and long-term investment plans at businesses.”
Japanese society’s decline in interest in sex and
intimate relationships has been commonly alluded to as “sekkusu-banare”
(wandering away from sex and intimacy) When asked by the Independent
regarding the reasons why a considerable number of Japanese people are
not in relationships, a woman (unnamed) replied that men “cannot be
bothered” to ask women out on dates as it was easier to consume internet
porn.
Likewise, artist Megumi Igarashi, 45, admitted
that dating can be challenging, stating the reasons why she thought
many men were not interested in doing so, as “they can watch porn on the
internet and get sexual satisfaction that way.”
True enough, with the accessibility and prevalence of adult content in
Japanese society, it is no wonder why many Japanese adults are drifting
away from “real-life” relationships and marriage into the fantasy-world
of pornography. Additionally, pornography addiction is becoming more
and more of a cause for concern, with 5.7% of university students in a
2021 report admitting that pornography gives rise to problems in their everyday lives.
In remarks quoted by The Mainichi,
one such pornography addict, a man in his 20s, whose pornography
consumed was undermining his daily life, acknowledged: “I keep watching
internet porn. I want to stop, but I just can't.”
Hiroyuki Ide, director of a mental health clinic in Kamakura, told The Mainichi
that the form pornography addiction “is the same as that of dependence
on alcohol and drugs.” Elaborating, Ide stated: “It's necessary to treat
the illness while focusing on the difficulty in living that patients
have deep in their hearts, where the root of the dependence lies.”
"The reality is that anyone can easily watch it.The characteristic
feature of dependence is that with a single click, the desire for
stronger stimulation escalates. It's a problem that doesn't surface
easily, but potentially a lot of people are suffering from it,” Ide
conceded.
Admitting the harmful ramifications of pornography use, such as the exploitation of women and children for sex, many anti-porn campaigners cheered the move by Japanese convenience stores 7-Eleven Japan and Lawson to stop selling pornographic material before the 2019 Rugby World Cup and the Tokyo Olympics. “This is certainly a welcome move,” Kanae Doi, Japan director of the non-profit Human Rights Watch, declared, in remarks cited by The Straits Times. “It has been very shameful... you can see pornography everywhere in Japan. Women are still seen as sex objects and not treated equally,” Doi continued.
Rampant pornography in Japan is coercing around 500 women
into the sex industry annually, where they are treated in a “degrading
and demeaning” way, researcher Caroline Norma from the RMIT University
in Australia stated. “Any measure to suppress the products and
activities of the sex industry in Japanese society will ease an
environment of sexual objectification and exploitation that is mostly
unregulated and culturally celebrated.”
The degradation of women as sex objects in Japan’s highly pornified
culture has even led to sexual predators groping women on public trains
and filming these assaults for sale on pornographic websites online.
According to a bombshell report by the BBC: “Most
videos follow the same pattern - a man secretly films a woman from
behind and follows her on to a train. Seconds later, he sexually abuses
her. The men act discreetly, and their victims can seem totally unaware.
These graphic videos are then listed on the websites for sale.” The
same BBC report even detailed a Telegram group with 4,000 members who exchange information on how to sexually abuse women.
Notably, this brief case study on Japan’s obsession with pornography
shows the depths to which a self-gratifying society devoid of God can
stoop. To boot, ordinary Japanese people’s reticence of ordinary
Japanese to speak out remains an obstacle to first recognizing and
addressing the deep-rooted problems of pornography in leading to the
country’s moral and demographic decline.