HAPPY ‘CALL NO MAN FATHER’ DAY to all of my Protestant friends!
Many people quote Matthew 23:9 — “And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven” to challenge Catholics for calling priests “Father.” But is that what Jesus intended?
Here are 5 key points that help us understand the true meaning of Our Lord’s words:
🔸 Jesus Used “Father” Himself: Jesus called Abraham “your father” (John 8:56) and referred to earthly fathers positively. If the verse was a total ban, Jesus Himself would have broken it.
🔸 It’s About Spiritual Pride, Not Titles: In Matthew 23, Jesus was condemning the scribes and Pharisees for seeking honor, titles, and glory for themselves instead of giving it to God. He was warning against prideful titles that elevate men above God, not against respectful family or spiritual titles.
🔸 The Bible Uses “Father” for Earthly and Spiritual Leaders: St. Paul called himself a “father” to the Corinthians (1 Corinthians 4:15) and referred to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob as fathers. The early Church continued this tradition. Priests, as spiritual fathers, guide us in the Faith just as biological dads guide their families.
🔸 It’s Hyperbole — Like Many of Jesus’ Teachings: Jesus often used strong language for emphasis: “hate your father and mother” (Luke 14:26) or “call no one teacher.” Catholics don’t take these literally in an absolute sense, we honor both earthly and spiritual fathers while recognizing God as the ultimate source of fatherhood.
🔸 St. Joseph & the Church’s Tradition: God Himself entrusted Jesus to St. Joseph’s fatherly care. The Church honors this beautiful vocation and extends the title “Father” to priests who care for our souls in the family of God. It’s a sign of love and respect, not idolatry.