The worst husbands in the Bible were all pretty bad. But as well as offering solemn warnings about how not to do it, Scripture also gives us examples of people who behaved really, really well. So here's Christian Today's list of the top five biblical husbands, who showed love and faithfulness to their wives when it would have been far easier not to.
1. Moses. In Numbers 12:1 we're told that Miriam and Aaron "began to talk against him" because he had married a Cushite woman. Their problem seems to have been that she was black (Cush is in modern Ethiopia). It might have been straightforward racial prejudice, or she might have been a slave and regarded
as beneath the leader of the Israelites. Either way, Moses ignored public feeling
and treated her with honour instead of just taking her as a mistress or concubine.
2. Boaz. He was a distant kinsman of Naomi, who left her home in Bethlehem
with her husband and sons and went to live in Moab. Her sons married Moabite
women, but both of them, and Naomi's husband, died. One of her daughters-
in-law, Ruth, came back with her to Bethlehem. They were very poor and Ruth
was a foreigner, but Boaz married her anyway. It was his duty, but it's also a
love story. It's one of the few good things to happen during the horrible period
of the Judges and the story's told in the book of Ruth.
4. Palti. He was the second husband of Michal, Saul's daughter, whom Saul
gave to him when she helped David escape. When David got the upper hand
over Saul's son Ishbosheth, he demanded her return. Palti "went with her,
weeping behind her all the way" (1 Samuel 3:16). You have to feel sorry for him,
but it was brave of him to show his loyalty like this: you didn't cross a king in
those days. (It also sheds a grim light on how women were treated: no one
seems to have asked Michal what she wanted.)3. Elkanah. He was married to
a woman named Hannah, who was childless. In those days this was a terrible
shame for a women and she felt it. Elkanah could have divorced her, but seems
to have loved her deeply. When she wept, he would say to her: "Hannah, why
are you weeping? Why don't you eat? Why are you downhearted? Don't I mean
more to you than ten sons?" (1 Samuel 1:9). It might have been a bit clumsy,
but he was trying his best. The son she eventually bore was Samuel, Israel's
last and greatest judge.
5. Hosea. He was a prophet who used his singularly unhappy marriage as a
metaphor for God and his relationship with Israel. He was married to a woman
named Gomer, who was serially unfaithful to him and seems to have had
children by other men (Hosea 1:2). Hosea, however, remained faithful and kept
taking
her back (3:1).